For what are you willing to struggle?
Joneen Mackenzie writes that success depends on the pain people will endure, not the rewards they want.
Joneen Mackenzie ·
If asked, “What do you want out of life?” most people would say health, happiness, a great job, family, friends, a lovely house in a vibrant community, and success. These answers are expected. A more interesting, thought-provoking question is, “For what are you willing to struggle?”
Of course, everyone wants a fantastic job and financial independence. Still, not everyone is willing to endure 60-hour workweeks, weekend obligations at the office, long commutes, piles of paperwork, or working with people who are mediocre at best. What determines success isn’t “What do you want to enjoy?” but rather, “What pain or struggle are you willing to endure?”
Many are in love with the results of a great job, financial security, a robust relationship, fitness and health, and being a musical rockstar or superstar, but they are not dedicated to the process of what it takes to get there.
Mackenzie writes that the attitude of resilience, grit, and the American way is at risk from those who look sideways and refuse to do whatever it takes to plan, work, and get ahead. They want to punish success and reward those who did not take risks, invest their own capital, and work 12-15-hour days with no guarantees. Answering “For what are you willing to struggle?” reveals the cry of our hearts. joneen@narme.org
Print source: The Villager, Vol. 44 No. 35, July 23, 2026, page 3. Issuu edition.